How to know He loves You

signs that He lovvvveeeesssss You

1) He supports and compromise: He supports your dreams, He can suspend some things He is doing to be with You at that audition, He can even buy You the form even though He hates acting, He knows You love diet coke and He prefers fanta so He would take half of his fanta off the fridge and add your diet coke.

2) He thinks about You: I know You are thinking How am I supposed to know He thinks about me But the signs are obvious, He sends You messages sometimes naughty messages, smiley faces, jokes and etc. He looks for the little excuses to talk with You.

3)The way He looks at You: The eyes holds many secrets of the heart, when You are talking He gets lost in your eyes or your smiles, He sits quietly and watch You talk, what You are saying is probably Not interesting But oh well when a man loves a woman ____________

4)He cares: This is the most obvious sign, You both May be quarreling and then something happens to You, He suddenly forgets He was ever angry and rush to you. Are You okay? what should I do to help? what's wrong?

5)He wants You to meet his friends and family: He can't keep his lips sealed, He wants to introduce You to the most important people in his life, most ladies mis read This, they believe when a man introduces You to his family He wants to marry You, :-) no darling Not necessarily sometimes its a way to show You How important You have become to him, He might be in love with You But has no marriage  plan yet

6)He says "I love You" : You probably don't believe This one based on the way those 3 words are misused But the truth is, a man that is truly in love can't hide his feelings forever. I love You/am in love with You are the hardest words to say when You really mean it, so the day He finally says those words You better believe it sister.

Now You know, the funny things about This signs is that Now the players knows we know the signs, so they come up with same trick to cajole a girl into falling for them But Not to worry I will also make a post on How to spot the players.

A few tips If you are Running out of things to say in your long distance relationship

long distance relationship can be really hard especially when it comes to conversations, If they were physically present then maybe the look on your face could do the talking. At the start of your long distance relationship you talked for an hour on phone without running out of topics, it was so much fun then suddenly those 1hour calls turned to 30mins, then 10mins, 1minute and before you realised it you no longer want to call or pick their calls because it has become to predictable. Well Thank God you came across this because here are some proven tips to create a long and good conversation with Not just your lover But with anyone.

1) LISTEN : when you listen you could create many topics from what your partner is saying even with the simplest and most cliche answers ..   for example __
You: baby what did you eat this morning ?
Him: I had tea and bread
You: what kind of bread?
Him: white bread
You: really you prefer white bread or that was the only kind of bread available?
from there topics will arise, it might Not be about the bread maybe about the milk He used and so on and so forth. sounds silly right? But with this topic you can end up talking about favourite foods, recipes, eating healthy and many more food related topics.
This way you are also getting to know each other better. This can also relate to other aspects of life like why He prefers driving to a long  instead of taking the train.. This can birth other topics like cars, roads, government and politics

2) TEAM WORK: For you to have a conversation or dialogue 2 people should be involved. Relationship is just like a game of football ,each team needs its complete 11 players to function perfectly or in This case the 2players.
You can't be the only one talking and asking all the questions. If you notice your partner is letting you do the talking then kindly ask them to get on board and If they ain't in the right mood to talk then you could call back.
Being the only one contributing is a big conversation killer.

3)TRY NEW THINGS: If you find yourself having the same kind of conversation everyday then maybe its because you do the same thing everyday, try something new, a new experience would bring a new conversational topic. Even as a person having same routine and schedule everyday  could get boring its Not good to be too predictable.

4)PREPARATION: Writting down what you want to say could be helpful, Lol when I told a friend this she said "am I giving a presidential speech or am talking to My boyfriend"
Writting it down doesn't necessarily mean you will use it sometimes the plans change and we just naturally go with the flow. When you write something down even If you are Not with the paper it sometimes sticks to your brain especially If you were thinking about it before Writting it, so it will be a good reminder If you had an important subject you wanted to discuss

5)TAKE A LITTLE BREAK: If all this ain't working Maybe for some days don't call or avoid their calls, you could send short messages indicating you are busy and little I love you messages here and there.
The experience from those days you didn't talk on phone would make a long conversation plus you both will be anxious to talk to each other :-) it will be like talking to an old friend for the first time in years Hahahaha Yes when you miss someone you love even for  some days it feels like months. Once in a while we need to give space for your partner to miss you it makes the heart grow fonder

Goodluck

Why blame the mistress??

  okay some women are fond of blaming the mistress for the affair instead of directing all the blames to the one that kept playing with the emotion of 2 women.

Most of this mistress dont even have feelings for the husbands all they are concerned about is the money and fun they are having in the relationship
They never walked up to your husband, understand that He did that on his own, He told them intimate things, He booked the hotel rooms, He was the one doing the spending. Accepted she could had said no But who told you she didnt? Do you know how many times He kept pressuring her? Do you kNow the last time she had a man care for her like that?
I know being cheated on hurts especially when you know He did  things He had never done for you to her
Am Not supporting the mistress in any way But If there is anyone that needs to be slapped around then its the man in the middle, He is the one that betrayed you and your marital vows, He could had talked to you If He wasn't feeling okay with the way things were going in the home But no He didn't
Its Not her fault If anything then its you and your husbands fault. It takes 2 to make and break a relationship so If you want to work on your home then work on it, dont waste energy on things that dont matter.

If He is just a boyfriend no need to get angry at the other woman or get into a fight with her, what you both need is to spank him together, He made the same promises to her As He made to you, He probably forwarded the same romantic love messages to her too. She was deceived just like you were, she is hurting just like you are. If there is a problem that need fixing then its the man in the middle

a new year and a new start for your love life

happy new year in advance to all my beautiful readersas we are stepping into the new year what are you plans for your relationship/marriage
yes just like every other job marriages and relationship needs commitment and hard work because they are full time jobs. 2013 might had brought up so many hurts and damages to your marriage or relationship and i know you are still hurting but you must not carry those grudges over to 2014, you need to talk it out with your partner, you need to express your feelings and get your new years resolution for your home. what habits has to stop and what habits do you need to see more often. sit with your partner and if possible you both should write down your feelings about each other. be open minded about it, accept critism and make changes where necessary. Remember   HOLD NOTHING BACK..
where is the relationship leading to, altar or heart break? what do you want out of this marriage forever or just for the fun of it? TALK IT ALL OUT dont carry it over

you cant force love

A man that wants to stay with you will stay and nothing can stop him.
But a man that doesn't want to stay nothing can change his mind, If you like turn 360 degree on bed and take his momma's recipes to make delicious meals for him. nothing can change his heart, women make mistakes by trying to do all they can in order for a man to love them, wake up sister you are only hurting yourself. when a man says he doesn't love you believe it dearie and save yourself the troubles.

dont make him/her just A friend

Having someone who cares for you is one of the most awesome feelings, someone you could tell anything, someone who will support your dreams and is always there to pick you up when you are down; hmmm we all somehow, somewhere, sometimes has/had this kind of person and what happened? we made them JUST A FRIEND :-) ..
a tip of the day next time If you are lucky enough to find such a person, never let go.

Never beg a cheat to stay

I will never understand why people whom are cheated on ends up begging the cheat to stay or stop the other affair bla bla

have some dignity my friend, no matter what you think IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT THAT YOU ARE CHEATED ON. That decision to cheat and betray that relationship/marriage was a personal decision it was out of their own will.
They knew you would be hurt If you found out but they still cheated anyway.

Have some pride my dear, If you beg and this cheat stays then the cheating will never stop because you have giving him/her all the power and in their eyes you have lost all respect.

You need to set your standard Now, what you can tolerate and what you cant tolerate, no matter how much in love you are, they need to earn your trust that is If you are willing to take em back. You are too special and If your partner cant see that then they need to use the door. You cant keep getting hurt in the name of love.