Being happy in your relationship

for you to make someone happy you have to be happy. when your man is sad or angry its left to you to make the atmosphere light and happy. the happiness of your relationship should begin with you. after that you then look into the personality of your man . what he likes. what he doesnt like. who he really is. you can make him smile before you even know what is wrong.  before talking him out of that gloom. now this is for a particular situation. in general you have to communicate with your man. let him know how you feel and what you feel. let him know your plans. let him now how your day will be.  he will do same when he sees you doing it. dont be scared or shy to ask him questions. let him talk. listen to him. only when verbal communication is on the way thats when understanding sets in and when you can communicate through a touch or a smile or a lift of the eyebrow. all these little naunces really makes you comfortable and happy. knwing when not to nag . nagging drives a man from his home and from a relationship. instead of talking and talking and more talk.. just let him know that you dont like something and keep quiet. silence is more potent and speaks volumes and makes a man change his ways a little. learning to be expressive. kiss your man at anytime. anyplace. touch him. hug him.  that will make him know that you adore him. and he will worship the ground you walk. a good food is a way to a mans heart. when your man is happy with the food served on his table. he will be happy.  learn to be expressive during love making.. be active.. dont just lie down like a piece of log. learn his body. touch him and pleasure his the way he does to you. dont make lovemaking look like a chore or a duty. your man will be reluctant to leave home and be eager to come back home. be prayerful. always put your liofe and relationship to the god you serve. let happiness the the order of the day in your life and home and relationship.

How to know He loves You

signs that He lovvvveeeesssss You

1) He supports and compromise: He supports your dreams, He can suspend some things He is doing to be with You at that audition, He can even buy You the form even though He hates acting, He knows You love diet coke and He prefers fanta so He would take half of his fanta off the fridge and add your diet coke.

2) He thinks about You: I know You are thinking How am I supposed to know He thinks about me But the signs are obvious, He sends You messages sometimes naughty messages, smiley faces, jokes and etc. He looks for the little excuses to talk with You.

3)The way He looks at You: The eyes holds many secrets of the heart, when You are talking He gets lost in your eyes or your smiles, He sits quietly and watch You talk, what You are saying is probably Not interesting But oh well when a man loves a woman ____________

4)He cares: This is the most obvious sign, You both May be quarreling and then something happens to You, He suddenly forgets He was ever angry and rush to you. Are You okay? what should I do to help? what's wrong?

5)He wants You to meet his friends and family: He can't keep his lips sealed, He wants to introduce You to the most important people in his life, most ladies mis read This, they believe when a man introduces You to his family He wants to marry You, :-) no darling Not necessarily sometimes its a way to show You How important You have become to him, He might be in love with You But has no marriage  plan yet

6)He says "I love You" : You probably don't believe This one based on the way those 3 words are misused But the truth is, a man that is truly in love can't hide his feelings forever. I love You/am in love with You are the hardest words to say when You really mean it, so the day He finally says those words You better believe it sister.

Now You know, the funny things about This signs is that Now the players knows we know the signs, so they come up with same trick to cajole a girl into falling for them But Not to worry I will also make a post on How to spot the players.