own up to your faults

cheating is a choice, when you are caught do
yourself a favour and dont play the blame game,
even If your partner was at fault somehow its still
Not a Good enough reason to cheat you should
had talked it out, the time you use in spending
with the person you are cheating with should had
been used cementing your marriage or
relationship .. I know its going to hurt your
partner knowing the whole truth But you just have
to say the whole truth to avoid future damage and
prolonged recovery in your relationship.