When was the last time you had a date night with your spouse? when was the last time you bought him/her flowers? a little romantic gestures can show your partner you still care and can keep a smile on their face for the whole day. Dont let the relationship get boring. so i was with a female friend today she is married but is now madly attracted to the electrician near them, she says he has great abs and recently started getting her gifts, she knows it is wrong but she loves it and she cant help how she feels. Then i asked her when was the last time she and her husband had some romantic alone time? She said it was in the first 2 years of her marriage that her husband bearly even stays home now and she no longer cares of fixing up the marriage all she wants now is out!!! There is no advise she can get from anywhere that can change her mind. YES the marriage has gotten that bad but i advised that before she walks out she should tell her husband how she feels and try to make it work at least for some exttra months, i asked her to write down all her feelings in a letter and give to her husband, she might want to leave believing the electrician might be the best way out but i have a belief that if the grass looks greener on the other side instead of jumping over how about watering your own plants to make it look better... Dont let your marriage get this bad always keep the charms and romance on and show your partner you care and truly appreciate them.
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