Some parents forget they were once teenagers the moment they have their own teens, YOU are going to tell them sex is bad, they will get pregnant and many more stories just to scare them But that wont change their minds If they really want to do it.
What you need is an open forum, where you educate them and tell them nothing But the truth about sex, teach them all you know. Also tell them the consequences (diseases&pregnancy) that might come If they decide to have sex as teens like But this time dont tell them like its a threat. Remember to tell them they are Not matured enough or financially empowered If any one of this consequences should arrive.
If you are the Christian religious type then use the bible to teach them about What God says about What God says concerning premarital sex.
lol i just remembered when i was a kid my mom said If a man touches me i will get pregnant, that scared me for a little while until i came across a pervert who told me all the wrong things about sex, He told me that If i have sex i wont be having menstrual pains again, that people will begin to respect me, He filled my head with so much nonsense that i wanted to have sex, the only thing that stopped me was my friend who told me how getting disvirgined was so painful.
I wouldn't had even given that pervert a listening ear If my mom had told me the truth about sex, Many little girls might have fallen for his trap, i was only 12 at that time. Your son might be getting the wrong lecture about sex from one sex starved miss out there or your little teenage daughter might just be so close to having sex with one pervert out there..
The ball is in your court!!
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