This is a sensitive issue and should be handled with total honesty, most people have gotten their homes ruined with This
People are taking feminism the wrong way, when God created Adam He gave him the job of taking care of every other thing outside, naming the animals, working and all But when He created eve it was for one purpose, to be a companion to Adam and take care of him. To take care of everything that happens inside the home.
Dont get me wrong am Not saying because you are married you shouldnt work. What am saying is as a wife and a mother your family needs your attention especially at the early stages, you are the home maker. Your absence can break your home, daddy can travel for 1 month and the kids wont feel it as long as He provides for the home But If mommy goes out for a full 24hour the home will be a mess, i know there are nannies, But a nanny can never fill the space of a mother or a wife.
As a married woman i believe being self employed is the best way to go that way you have time for your family, you come back home whenever you want, But these are things you can never do As a working class woman. You go to work by 7am and close by 6pm, lets Not talk about the traffic, in a terrible traffic you might get home by 9pm and then the kids are already in bed and your husband had probably eaten in a restaurant or the meal the maid prepared.
This is Not the right way to make a home, you cant have a happy home This way, even If you need to work in the co operate world then it should be at a later stage of your marriage where the kids are grown and can handle themselves and you know you have nothing much to worry about, your spouse will understand then that they need to support you.
some women might be putting on a charade that being a working class doesn't affect their marriage But i can assure you that is a big lie.
In the co operate world there are lots of competitions, everyone wants to be the best and desperation can get the better part of you to the worst to get a certain position or to win a certain contract Not minding you are married. Some high profile business men dont care If your married, If you want to be the one to get the contract for your company then you gotta be the one to rub his pot belly for at least an hour.
But at the end of the day This is just my opinion so What do you think ?
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