THE LITTLE HELP THAT MIGHT CAUSE
BIG DAMAGES
There are so
many little things that can that can cause big damages to your
child's future and you wont even know you are doing them harm than
good.
DOING YOUR CHILD'S SCHOOL
ASSIGNMENT
Most parents
are fond of doing their child’s school work, dont worry about your
assignment junior go and sleep. I dont know if it is because they are
too lazy to teach and direct the child on how to go about it or it is
because they believe its stressful for the children, their reasons I
dont know and I dont care but it is wrong. Some parents say they are
too busy and stressed to do homework with their child so that’s why
they just do the work when alone and free to avoid more stress, I
understand that excuse but I believe its better to hire a home tutor
to help than do it yourself.
In the long run
doing your child’s homework just might cause damage in a way you
never taught was possible, because this child probably didn’t
understand what his teacher explained in class but by the time he
wakes up in the morning his assignment is done, he goes to school,
submit the paper and gets an A even if he didn’t understand the
work. No worries right? After all he is getting A's that’s all that
matters.
HE STARTS SEEING THINGS
DIFFERENTLY
why should he
do his work? If mom or dad cant do it anymore then he can simply
slide his pocket money or food to the nerdy kid to do his homework.
Life is so much better when you reap without sowing, he can even
start paying the nerdy kid in class to help him during exams. He can
go through life believing he could just pay someone, sleep, wake up
and bammm his work is done. Is this the kind of life you want for
your child? You do know that he will not go far in life if he lives
his life this way. He might has excellent results but 0 IQ. Who would
you blame?
You are probably
wondering if it is possible for doing a mere homework for your child
cause this much damage, wonder no more because it truly can, train
your child the way he should grow and when he grows he will not
depart from it. When you train a child in the way of cheating and
reaping where he did not sow then that is the way he will grow
Children looks
up to us(parents) as their idols, we should set good examples for
this children. Teachers in school will try but our kids spends more
time at home than in school, dont leave all the academic work to the
teachers, you should tutor them if you understand the homework and if
you dont understand you call their class teacher to explain or better
still send them back to school with the homework undone the next day
with a note attached, so the class teacher can explain further for
them to understand.
Success is not
just about the cars, house and bank accounts, actually to me success
is when my child’s teacher calls me to tell me my child is doing a
good job at school or when a stranger tells me ''your child is well
mannered''. Those are what I call success.
