Being happy in your relationship

for you to make someone happy you have to be happy. when your man is sad or angry its left to you to make the atmosphere light and happy. the happiness of your relationship should begin with you. after that you then look into the personality of your man . what he likes. what he doesnt like. who he really is. you can make him smile before you even know what is wrong.  before talking him out of that gloom. now this is for a particular situation. in general you have to communicate with your man. let him know how you feel and what you feel. let him know your plans. let him now how your day will be.  he will do same when he sees you doing it. dont be scared or shy to ask him questions. let him talk. listen to him. only when verbal communication is on the way thats when understanding sets in and when you can communicate through a touch or a smile or a lift of the eyebrow. all these little naunces really makes you comfortable and happy. knwing when not to nag . nagging drives a man from his home and from a relationship. instead of talking and talking and more talk.. just let him know that you dont like something and keep quiet. silence is more potent and speaks volumes and makes a man change his ways a little. learning to be expressive. kiss your man at anytime. anyplace. touch him. hug him.  that will make him know that you adore him. and he will worship the ground you walk. a good food is a way to a mans heart. when your man is happy with the food served on his table. he will be happy.  learn to be expressive during love making.. be active.. dont just lie down like a piece of log. learn his body. touch him and pleasure his the way he does to you. dont make lovemaking look like a chore or a duty. your man will be reluctant to leave home and be eager to come back home. be prayerful. always put your liofe and relationship to the god you serve. let happiness the the order of the day in your life and home and relationship.

Spicing up your home with foods 2.

spice up your home with eggs. eggs are commonly used as breakkfast in most homes with other foods. what you have to do is prepare differnt types  of eggs each time you want to give your family eggs for breakfast. it keeps them on their toes. it makes them eager to come see what you have for them. so lets prepare eggs. poached egg if tou can get litttle poached cups or a poached agg pan you can use little cupcake pan or just ur frying pan. put a little oil and more water in the pan and allow it to boil. then put a pinch of salt. you can add anyspice of your choice. break your egg at the top. make sure it doesnt scatter pour it into the boiling water and allow it cook. you can leave the yokwe half done and remove or you can flip the egg over to allow the yoke cook. fluffy egg..break ur egg into a bowl add your salt spices are optional.. add either milk or water into the egg. your pan with oil on fire. when its hot reduce the heat to very low and pour your eggs batter. fry on low heat. use your flat spoon on the sides to make sure it doesnt stick on the pan. add a little water or milk if u want it more fluffy. flip over to allow the other side fry.there are at least a dozen ways to prepare eggs. be creative in your kitchen.

VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF LIFE

variety they say is the spice of life. this is so true in every aspects of life. i am going to touch on the aspect of food and family. everyone gets bored when a certain  type of food is cooked everytime in the home. as a mother you should be ready to cook one food at least three types of ways. a good example of  such  is the legendary jollof rice. they are a whole lot of ways to prepare it. to help you spice up your home through your kitchen i will be here each day with at least two different ways to cook a particular food. stay in touch with me here and make your husband and kids smile after a good meal.

dealing with a stressed man

 
Once upon a time, my husband was down financially, He would be moody all the time and sometimes lost his temper over unnecessary things. His mood also got me feeling bad, sometimes i also get to lose my temper and shout back But it never helped instead things got worst. So i decided to try a new method, whenever He comes back with that moody face, after He takes his meal, i just sit with him and make him lie on my legs, i dont need to say a word, my legs became a comfortable pillow for him lol, i run my hands through his scalp sometimes He would just sleep off.. Your man might Not be like mine But find out what works for him, when a man is going through financial stress sometimes it draws him away from the family, He always becomes angry because He can no longer afford those beautiful things for his family, most times when this men are angry all you need to do is hug them, If He doesn’t want to tell you why his mood is down, don’t put pressure just remind him you are always available to talk to.

My husband lives abroad

Please hide my identity, and no
insults please. am married by the
grace of God with two(2) children.
my husband business was not
moving well, things became difficult
for us, so he decided to move his
business to one of the african
coutries. we both agreed for him to
travel; then i was pregnant for the
second baby. since he left, one
problem to another. he has become
a visitor to his children, he wil come
to nigeria ones in 4years. no money
to feed. when i ask for money, he
will say things are difficult. when i
cry, he would send 10,000 thousand
naria. i begged him for us to be with
him over there, he gave two reasons,
that 1: the place is very corrupt and
children will not take education
serious and 2: no money. one
problem or the other from his
family. so I decided to do something
to feed the children. i couldnt get a
job with my certificate, so a friend
helped me by giving me some of her
products to sell and make money in
the market place. with prayers and
hard work, i was able to move from
one step to another, from grass to
grace. 13yrs of marriage without a
man, I can proudly say my account
is loaded. God helped me and i
have my own beauty palour and
kiddies shop. the children were
happy and comfortable. they are in
boarding school now. he came back
3yrs ago and promised me he will
not stay more than two to 3months
again, to come stay with us 1month
and go back. we settled and he went
back to his base. its 3yrs now and
he has not come back. but he send
school fees for one while i pay the
other, because i made it so. I called
him in december last year, told him
my mind, that am human and I
need a man by my side, the
temptation is too much. that if I
dont see him by December, I will
tell my family to return the bride
price. he did not come and no
reason. January, he called that
Easter will be better for him to
come, and that he is coming back to
Nigeria finally. Now, my problem is I
met a man who we became good
friends (you understand). he is
divorced with 4children. I really
want the friendship to continue, but
am confused now, to continue
managing with my abroad husband
or divorce him to be with a man
with 4kids. please help me, what do
I do. thanks and God bless.