My husband lives abroad

Please hide my identity, and no
insults please. am married by the
grace of God with two(2) children.
my husband business was not
moving well, things became difficult
for us, so he decided to move his
business to one of the african
coutries. we both agreed for him to
travel; then i was pregnant for the
second baby. since he left, one
problem to another. he has become
a visitor to his children, he wil come
to nigeria ones in 4years. no money
to feed. when i ask for money, he
will say things are difficult. when i
cry, he would send 10,000 thousand
naria. i begged him for us to be with
him over there, he gave two reasons,
that 1: the place is very corrupt and
children will not take education
serious and 2: no money. one
problem or the other from his
family. so I decided to do something
to feed the children. i couldnt get a
job with my certificate, so a friend
helped me by giving me some of her
products to sell and make money in
the market place. with prayers and
hard work, i was able to move from
one step to another, from grass to
grace. 13yrs of marriage without a
man, I can proudly say my account
is loaded. God helped me and i
have my own beauty palour and
kiddies shop. the children were
happy and comfortable. they are in
boarding school now. he came back
3yrs ago and promised me he will
not stay more than two to 3months
again, to come stay with us 1month
and go back. we settled and he went
back to his base. its 3yrs now and
he has not come back. but he send
school fees for one while i pay the
other, because i made it so. I called
him in december last year, told him
my mind, that am human and I
need a man by my side, the
temptation is too much. that if I
dont see him by December, I will
tell my family to return the bride
price. he did not come and no
reason. January, he called that
Easter will be better for him to
come, and that he is coming back to
Nigeria finally. Now, my problem is I
met a man who we became good
friends (you understand). he is
divorced with 4children. I really
want the friendship to continue, but
am confused now, to continue
managing with my abroad husband
or divorce him to be with a man
with 4kids. please help me, what do
I do. thanks and God bless.