Being happy in your relationship

for you to make someone happy you have to be happy. when your man is sad or angry its left to you to make the atmosphere light and happy. the happiness of your relationship should begin with you. after that you then look into the personality of your man . what he likes. what he doesnt like. who he really is. you can make him smile before you even know what is wrong.  before talking him out of that gloom. now this is for a particular situation. in general you have to communicate with your man. let him know how you feel and what you feel. let him know your plans. let him now how your day will be.  he will do same when he sees you doing it. dont be scared or shy to ask him questions. let him talk. listen to him. only when verbal communication is on the way thats when understanding sets in and when you can communicate through a touch or a smile or a lift of the eyebrow. all these little naunces really makes you comfortable and happy. knwing when not to nag . nagging drives a man from his home and from a relationship. instead of talking and talking and more talk.. just let him know that you dont like something and keep quiet. silence is more potent and speaks volumes and makes a man change his ways a little. learning to be expressive. kiss your man at anytime. anyplace. touch him. hug him.  that will make him know that you adore him. and he will worship the ground you walk. a good food is a way to a mans heart. when your man is happy with the food served on his table. he will be happy.  learn to be expressive during love making.. be active.. dont just lie down like a piece of log. learn his body. touch him and pleasure his the way he does to you. dont make lovemaking look like a chore or a duty. your man will be reluctant to leave home and be eager to come back home. be prayerful. always put your liofe and relationship to the god you serve. let happiness the the order of the day in your life and home and relationship.