My husband lives abroad

Please hide my identity, and no
insults please. am married by the
grace of God with two(2) children.
my husband business was not
moving well, things became difficult
for us, so he decided to move his
business to one of the african
coutries. we both agreed for him to
travel; then i was pregnant for the
second baby. since he left, one
problem to another. he has become
a visitor to his children, he wil come
to nigeria ones in 4years. no money
to feed. when i ask for money, he
will say things are difficult. when i
cry, he would send 10,000 thousand
naria. i begged him for us to be with
him over there, he gave two reasons,
that 1: the place is very corrupt and
children will not take education
serious and 2: no money. one
problem or the other from his
family. so I decided to do something
to feed the children. i couldnt get a
job with my certificate, so a friend
helped me by giving me some of her
products to sell and make money in
the market place. with prayers and
hard work, i was able to move from
one step to another, from grass to
grace. 13yrs of marriage without a
man, I can proudly say my account
is loaded. God helped me and i
have my own beauty palour and
kiddies shop. the children were
happy and comfortable. they are in
boarding school now. he came back
3yrs ago and promised me he will
not stay more than two to 3months
again, to come stay with us 1month
and go back. we settled and he went
back to his base. its 3yrs now and
he has not come back. but he send
school fees for one while i pay the
other, because i made it so. I called
him in december last year, told him
my mind, that am human and I
need a man by my side, the
temptation is too much. that if I
dont see him by December, I will
tell my family to return the bride
price. he did not come and no
reason. January, he called that
Easter will be better for him to
come, and that he is coming back to
Nigeria finally. Now, my problem is I
met a man who we became good
friends (you understand). he is
divorced with 4children. I really
want the friendship to continue, but
am confused now, to continue
managing with my abroad husband
or divorce him to be with a man
with 4kids. please help me, what do
I do. thanks and God bless.

His gay experience

  Mike calls me to his office, i reluctantly stood up from my desk and walked so sluggish. I was angry because i have been looking for sponsor for my script But all my efforts were in vain, it was a powerful story and well scripted, i expected it to get me more money

as i was deeply lost in taught i heard my name again, simeon simeon hurry up, so i tried picking up my pace, "hello sir i said to Mike..
Mike couldn't help But noticed how sad i was so He asked me what happened and i explained the whole situation. He said i was a nice guy so He would help me, He had couple of friends in the entertainment industry..
why He called me? i didnt care anymore He probably told me But i didnt listen all i was calculating was how much i would sell the script, mike asked me to come later that night by 8pm because his director friend was coming around

i was so excited all i could do was look at the clock, i didnt want to eat anything and once it was 7:30 i left the house for mike's place, i got there by 5minutes past 8.

"knock knock" i said , He came and opened the door, He was drinking with his friend. mike introduced i and his friend and we got talking
some minutes later mike went up to his room and while He was there his friend(male) started telling me how handsome i was, it was a little bit awkward coming from a guy But the guy talks Good business so i had to suck it up. Not less than 5mins mike went up He came back downstairs with just his underwear, He said i should come up He had something to show me, this was gettin real weird and awkward But yet again i needed the money.
as i followed him to his room, there was some red petals on the bed, like the romantic ones couples use on their first wedding night.
       mike asked me to sit on the bed and i did, He started telling me how cute i was and all, He asked me to remove my shirt so He would feel my muscle and then it hits me HE'S GAY

omg my anus!!! was the first taught that came to mind. am Not gay and i don't know what made him think i was But i didnt want to let him know the obvious (that i was about to run away)
so i asked him If He could let me go finish my drink downstair first before coming back to the bedroom, i told him i would perform better when am tipsy. There are 2 heavily built men in the house and am so Not strong enough to fight them both so i had to be creative

when i got downstair Mr director was also only on his underwear and i didnt know when i shouted mo darun (am in trouble).
Mr director asked mike to put on the music and He did put in a yanni song(jazz)
they both got up and started slow dancing,
omg am dead, am finished, kept goin through my mind, my heart was beating so fast and audible.

while they were dancing i tried to slowly escape but i couldn't because it was like they were taking turns on who will keep their eyes on me. it was horrible...

i knew i was stuck in this situation then i had an idea, i remember almost all kitchens have back doors so If i could get an excuse to go to the kitchen then am Good. i know i had to act fast and while all those million taughts were going through my head i started praying, something i haven't  done in years and little tears started dropping from my eyes.

mike noticed the tears and He asked me what happened,

ME: "tears of joy mike am so happy, i didnt know there were gays like me in this country its such an awesome feeling getting to meet people like you"

awww Mr director said then why are you sitting there come join us, lets dance and be merry.

i had impregnated over 6girls in the past, i mis treat, use and dumped girls.. I prayed harder for forgiveness and God intervention, If i get through this am going to settle down and start treating girls better i promised God .

As i stood up i remembered the kitchen idea so i told him to show me his kitchen cos i was hungry and He pointed towards the direction of his kitchen and lo and behold As i stepped into the kitchen there was an open back door, my script was still in the house and so was my shoe, shirt But who cares??? I ran out of there As fast As my legs could go.

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Live for you

Most people have spent all their life pleasing people and not actually doing what they would love to do. So i begin to wonder how can you ever be happy living someone else`s life??

BeyouJust U

Okay some people are afraid to say what they feel or be true to themselves because they are afraid people might judge them harshly, so they keep pretending and imprison themselves to sadness, the fact is no matter what you do people can never be perfectly pleased and I believe the only person that you should concentrate on pleasing is YOU because only U knows how it feels
Only U will live with the consequences of your actions. Only U will be judged by God for your actions. So my dear only U has the right to live your life. Life is beautiful but U cant see it if U are letting other people live your life